Be happy , Be healthy

Today i started my day with a morning walk and while walking felt , how good the morning is that we always miss either due to sleep or due to commitments but now i have decided that i will be happy always and go for walk always. There is no reason why one should be unhappy , even if the circumstances are against or not favorable one has to live and it will be better that if he leaves the result to GOD and work for betterment of life.

By being sad for things that can not change in coming period is waste of time, firstly we loose this precious present time and secondly we come up with lots of aspects which may never happen. this not only eats away our energy and time but also makes us inefficient.

So its better to believe in self, set long term goals and act accordingly.
I know what i have to achieve and i know that if i work for it with dedication, i will get it . I will get it as GOD will always listen to one who works dedicatedly to the goal.

So Be happy and live life fullest with the given resources .

:)

I walk a lonely road

Dreams are there to come true .. But i walk a lonely road to make them real.. This is life.. we all have dreams and we all do always move to make them real. .. but when ?
When will be those dreams a reality..
Are all dreams meant to be chased..
How to distinguish between dreams that can be made reality ??

All these thoughts come in the mind when i think about my dreams. My aspiration..
we all try our best, with all the limited resources we give our best, i the hope that one day we will realize our dreams ..

I pray to god that may all dreams of all come true but is it possible .. No thats the reality..

Sometimes you feel that u are curbed , you are caged in the circumstances and u can not do anything.. Because u are the reason for those circumstances .. And on the path of realizing them you forget to track ...Am i on the right path .. Are my energies all concentrated on right target.

Sometimes we forget our short term goals and that is the catch .. we have to define our short term goals , our short term dreams, because these are the milestones which will help us to keep on track ..

But many a times we have to skip or delay these events and u finally forget them.. Many a times the restriction on the circumstances makes us so dependent that we are not able to act according to our aspirations ..

Then the introspection gives us the result .. it is the one mistake that was done .. knowingly or Unknowingly that is creating the problem.. But the mistake is done .. Things have changed and nothing can be done .. !!!

But still i think there is a hope.. i can still dream !! still work for getting them realized ...

We can do it, I can do it .. Just a self belief and a right direction..

I/we will dream .. DREAM high and act for it ...

So keep Dreaming !!! (and acting too )

Nature is most powerful

Some times i wonder what is the most powerful thing that guides us .. Future happenings and present happenings. IS there any relationship between them..Being a Engineer i have always been in nature of solving a problem with a structured manner and this problem also came to me as the same. i am no one to comment on the process or equations that people / scientists are working on but i still feel my contribution will be worthwhile for me and those who are not that into the subject but are interested in the topic.


But as i just thought about it and tried to analyze happening with me and round, i found that i myself was the reason for every happening.Everything was by choice .every action has its relation with the previous past.Everything that was happening was what i always aimed at or what always prayed to God.So is there any force or power that is listening to it . Although the shape of things or events was not what i had thought but they had the final residue what i wanted.So this proved to me that nature listens and i should be careful about my talking to nature.

Nature also makes things simple for human being but it is we who complicate the issue.It is we as humans who just don't understand the basic reason of any happening . I challenge you or in this case anyone .. just take any event of your life that has happened 6-7 years back .you will track it down and find that it was the best suited solution for that event or problem with given conditions.

So this also justifies that nature on the whole looks at the map of happenings and then decide where as we see the event as a single entity . This is where the human constrains comes into play.Nature creates present event with the future in mind but we see that event as one and the result of that moment.

Some people do question my logic by asking what about the wrong doings that happen to someone .why Nature did this to us. But we must understand that we are the part of a system .Every system has its own cycle of start and end. Every system will be outdated or destroyed as per the nature's law.Untimely looses of loved ones is the part of system .This might be one of those variables in the system that nature uses to give better form to present entity in the system.May be it is something to do with that individual who was lost. Or may be it has to do with the people who are around him.

Nature to counter this variable has given a very unique thing to us.It is forget full memory or temporary memory. We forget events, things , people ,losses with the time. So here we go .Nature with its variable has also given the constant the will be there always.

finally i will re-emphasize that we are part of nature and nature is the most strongest power which determines every event in this world.

DUBAI The land of Reunion

I have been in Dubai for last one month and was here earlier also..It is an amazing place to find people of different cultures living together. but two countries that i got interested in was INDIA and Pakistan..
I think the leaders of both the countries should come here and see how similar we are.
Being from one of the places which were destroyed due to hand full of people from other side of border i know what is it when you favor or talk about the people from that country.
But i had interactions with lot of common people from the country and few good friends . One of them being my batch mate and other is in the process of being one of my good friends.Both are from Pakistan.
I also interact with lot of people from the country in taxis, restaurants,stores etc.. but trust me no one is worried about how two countries will bully each other.. they are here to earn and give better life to their children. To live the life to its dignity and hope for better future for their children.. Lot of Indians come here to work .. leaving behind their families , just to save some money and make their children's future safe..

How similar are human emotions . How similar are our needs yet we have differences.
Its not that one should not stand for their rights but one should not differentiate based on Country of origin.

Some times i think, is it not that a child who takes birth in Afghanistan deserve the same upbringing or opportunity that a kid in US does. Is it not the responsibility of mankind to give child its future..
Is it not that he wants to live life with dignity and enjoy the only life he has got...
But But But ...Circumstance .... People and Money ..makes us to do things differently.. Things out of our humanity..

I do sometime think about these issues but .. LIFE is tough and Unfair.

Hope for the best

First One

It has been sometime when i wanted to share life and its experience .. so here i am with my blog.. All emotional and life related topics will be discussed and all the comments and views are my personal... No relation with anyone ... but we all can share what we see in life... learn live and perish thats the story of life !!!!
So wait and watch!!

Cheers
Tushar